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STOP SEARCHING FOR A PRINCE!
Nowadays, there is a trend on Facebook/Twitter/blog/tumblr
where people would talk about marriage; demanding a great, soleh husband/wife
to enter the Jannah together and so on.
Looking at a positive side, I can't deny that it is good for
us to have a perspective that a relationship between a man and a woman is a
thousand way better with marriage - as all of us (Muslims) get the fact that
marriage has more barakah and is a halal way to express love.
Furthermore, a successful marriage is a door to Jannah. I
find that it is beautiful when it is said that if a woman is a man's key to
paradise (by helping him to fulfill his deen with her through marriage and
being an obedient wife), so, a man is a woman's door to Jannah. The key that
opens the door - a husband and a wife need each other's help to get there,
masya-Allah.
The Prophet Muhammad SAW said: ''The most perfect believer
in faith is the one whose character is finest and who is kindest to his wife.''
(Tirmidhi and Nasa'i)
As a Muslim woman, I also want a great man to marry me - the
man who lowers his gaze so that I become the only woman he sees, the man who
preserved his heart for me, the man whose love will make me stronger - a gift
from Allah, insya-Allah. Surely, I want him to encourage me to be closer to
Allah in our baitul muslim; baitul dakwah.
But sisters, do you think that a prince of deen will marry
you while you just sit in front of your laptop, busy updating your status about
marrying a righteous man or sharing almost all of Irma Hasmie's marriage photos
and saying how lucky she is to become a wife of a great man? Will a prince of
deen look for you just because of your splendid poem about marriage, your
'surat-buat-calon-suami' entries or your 'menanti-bakal-imamku-dunia-akhirat'
status? No.
And why do you focus on finding a righteous man (a prince of
deen) only? Stop it. Don't let your imagination ruin yourself. There are many
doors of Jannah so there are many ways to enter them. Don't just focus on one
way (marriage). Be a righteous person first, prepare yourself. Devote yourself
to Allah and when you stop searching for a prince and make Allah the King of
your heart, He will help you to complete your fairy tale.
"I tell the boys and girls; Allah has already written
the name of your spouses for you. What you need to work on is your relationship
with Allah. He will send him/her to you when you're ready. It is only a matter
of time." - Sheikh Mamdouh
For ladies, remember this - don't worry if you haven't found
your life partner. Be a righteous woman not just because you want to marry a
righteous man. Marry a righteous man not just because you want him to go with
you to Jannah. You can attain Jannah with or without marriage. Now is the time
for you be the one that can lead yourself there.
Take Maryam RA as an example. She never did get married but
was still a righteous woman in the eye of Allah SWT. He says:
"And (the example of) Mary, the daughter of 'Imran, who
guarded her chastity, so we blew into (her garment) through Our Angel, and she
believed in the words of her Lord and His scriptures and was the devoutly
obedient."
(Surah at-Tahrim, verse 12)
Pray and make du'a for the best, not just for life in dunya
but also for hereafter. Ask Allah to forgive our sins, our parents' sins, our
family's, teachers' and friends'. Don't forget to make du'a for our brothers
and sisters in Palestine, Iraq, Syria, Afghanistan and Burma after every
prayer.
And ask Allah to help ourselves to be among the righteous
men.
- Artikel iluvislam.com
# u can dance with ur prince if he was halal to u^^
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